I'm 20 and have recently come to terms with my bisexuality. I'm still thinking about this but it feels right to identify as bi. I've always considered myself straight, and everyone I know thinks I'm straight. But these past few years have made me seriously question that. I've had one boyfriend before (didn't last very long), plus I've dated a few other guys. I've never dated a girl, but one day I'd like to. I have certainly developed some very intense attractions towards certain women, both sexually and emotionally. At the moment I'm very attracted to one of my female managers. The other night I got home from work and just couldn't stop fantasizing about her. God, I want her so bad lol. In my head I just kept asking myself: why? Why do I keep feeling like this? Then I thought about the other women I'd felt like that about in the past, and something just clicked. I'm not straight. Men are sexy. But heck, so are women. And I'm tired of feeling guilty and shameful about the feelings I have. :dry: I haven't told anyone I'm bi, and I think it will be a little while before I do so. I'm pretty scared. So, yeah. Just wanted to say hi and introduce myself! Can't wait to talk to some of you lovely people.
Hi there and welcome! I went through many of the same feelings as you when I was around 17-18 and still do sometimes. Both are very sexy! :icon_wink