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Newly out

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Thrillo, Jun 3, 2015.

  1. Thrillo

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    Hi Im a 24 yo black male, muscular, chubby but losing, short hair.

    I don't know what to say. I spent my life being straight. I look straight, I act "straight", most people think I'm straight. Even many gay guys I pass act scared or tense when I pass as if I'm a gay basher.

    Well, I cant deny myself anymore. I don't want to do this fake dance with girls anymore, and go through the BS of dealing with them when it's something I dont even want. Or I spend my time fantasizing of guys.

    I love long hair, I like fem guys, sometimes butch guys. I'd like to meet some people, have some gay friends in my life, and just... stop living a lie. Ive never had gay sex, Ive not done anything physically sexual with a guy or trans.

    Dont know me? Get to know me. I'm Awesome.
     
  2. lovecraft

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    Hello and welcome !
     
  3. MindvsHeart

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    Hello there! :slight_smile: Welcome to EC~ Great to hear that you've finally come out to yourself and I wish you luck for any future coming outs.

    All the best!,
    -MvH.
     
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