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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by cassy4, Jun 19, 2015.

  1. cassy4

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    Hi. I decided to be brave and join. I am almost 15 and you can call me Cass. I have always been attracted to women, even when i was like 4 i loved those barbies and brats dolls. I never thought anythink was wrong with me because i didnt even know what lesbians were at the time. When i learned what being gay was i automatically knew i was and i would cry and cry. I was so scared that I would be. I mean my family is accepting and all, but i just didn't want to be different. Now I am starting to have feelings about guys and I just dont know anymore! I always thought that i was lesbian in the back of my mind (although I never admitted it to myself). I am so confused!!!
     
  2. blackbudgie

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    Hi cass!
    I identify with your feelings, but the other way round. Which means, I always thought I am straight, till I got a crush on girls. Since then, it came step by step. I turned out being bi, and maybe you will experience a similar situation.
     
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    Welcome to EC. :slight_smile: I am always available if you wanna chat.
     
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    Hello & welcome, Cass. There's such a broad spectrum when it comes to our interest in people emotionally, romantically and sexually. I don't care much for labels, but, sometimes terms can helps us better understand ourselves. I'm just me & happy to be so. I'm a couple of hours north of San Francisco. Nice to meet a fellow Californian. Hope you enjoy your time here & make many new friends.
     
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    Hello, I'm new here to. I'm the same age and I will be 15 on the first. I've only just come out as lesbian, and my feeling were very complicated like yours. To be honest, I still have doubts but my sister confronted me so I had to come out. Feel free to write on my wall or ask me anything. :slight_smile: