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  1. LuciaLukie

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    Hello everyone! I just joined this community! I'm Lucia, though I prefer to go by my nickname Lukie. I'm sixteen, and I'm from London. I'm currently questioning my gender, which is why I joined.

    I'm not sure if I'm Trans, or just a Lesbian Tomboy. I hate everything stereotypically girly, and if I were a skirt or a dress it will be over my dead body. I also hate my breast, and bind them (my family don't know, they think I'm flat-chested.), and having hair that goes past my shoulders feels wrong. Even my fathers hair is shorter than mine. I've also always been attracted to girls. Lots of people have mistaken me for my twin sister's boyfriend or brother when we've been out together, and (though I dislike the idea of dating my sis.) I have to say, it makes me happy, and I wouldn't correct them, if she didn't.

    However, I don't mind that much if someone calls me a girl, and I don't mind my vagina, much. I don't mind a lot when my mum and dad call me their little girl, so I keep wondering if I'm really trans or just an extreme tomboy that's also a lesbian...I'm confused.
     
    #1 LuciaLukie, Jun 21, 2015
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    Hi, Lukie! :slight_smile: I recommend you skip on over to the Gender Identity and Expression section in the Support Area and make a thread. Tell us how you feel and we'll help you best we can.

    Welcome, to EC, also! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:

    And since I see you're asleep now, good morning for when you wake up!

    see ya around~
     
    #2 Invidia, Jun 21, 2015
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    Heya! Yeah, do whatever Becki says, she's super cool. ^^
     
    #3 Im Hazel, Jun 21, 2015
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    HI Lukie!
     
    #4 cassy4, Jun 21, 2015
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    Hey Lukie! Hopefully you find some help on here.
     
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    Welcome!
     
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  7. LuciaLukie

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    Thank you very much for your advice! Also for welcoming me! :icon_bigg

    ---------- Post added 22nd Jun 2015 at 07:33 AM ----------
    Thank you! :icon_bigg

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    Hi, and thank you! I hope so too! :icon_bigg

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    Hi! :smilewave

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    Hi! :lol: I think I'll take her advice, it seems very helpful!
     
    #7 LuciaLukie, Jun 21, 2015
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    Hi Lukie... I can only echo what Becki and Hazel have said. This is a very welcoming and warm forum, and you will gets lots of helpful and reassuring advice.
    Don't worry about about being confused. It will come in time, I promise you. I am still confused myself, as my username suggests (my real name is David by the way), just be strong, and have faith in yourself.

    I hope you enjoy coming on to and being in EC. It is a wonderful place. :welcome:
     
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    :icon_bigg
    Thank you very much for your support and advice! Also, thank you for welcoming me! :icon_bigg
    I have taken Becki's advice and made another post in the section of the forum that deals with Gender Identity. Hopefully that will help me answer some of my questions!
     
    #9 LuciaLukie, Jun 22, 2015
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    Hello and welcome to Ec! :slight_smile:
    I hope you enjoy your time here and that you make new friends who will both advise and support you.
    Best of luck and if you ever need a friend don't hesitate to contact me :slight_smile:
     
    #10 C06122014, Jun 22, 2015
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    Thank you very much!! :icon_bigg
     
    #11 LuciaLukie, Jun 22, 2015
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    Hi
     
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    :smilewave
     
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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:. Feel free to message me on my wall at any time
     
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    Hello! ^.^
     
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    hi
     
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    Hi everyone! And thank you very much for all support, advice and replies given!
     
    #17 LuciaLukie, Jun 23, 2015
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    Hello & welcome, Lukie. I learned the term, gender fluid, recently. Though I don't care for labels, it does help me better understand myself & realize, that's what I've been my whole life. I usually have a balance of male & female energy (dress, ideas, attitude, interests). Sometimes I lean more toward one than the other. I hope you enjoy your time here, find answers & make many new friends.
     
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    Hi Lukie! Welcome to EC
     
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    Hey! And thanks!
     
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