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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by unigueusername, Jun 24, 2015.

  1. unigueusername

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    (!)I am sort of Bi or something, there is some confusion about it for me because these kinds of things have popped up recently (I am 16) although I suppose I could ay there was a hint or two in the past. I am reluctant to consider myself Bi because in the past I considered myself very straight. I am wondering if it is possible that my same sex attraction is somehow inauthentic.
    I recently began to find myself attracted to men around me and to watch gay porn. I know that the porn is not always a good indicator of orientation, and they both kind of started around the same time. When I consider myself kissing or being in a long term relationship with a men it is not an unpleasant thought, but I still have some reservations about identifying as bi.
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! Everyone here is very supportive and I hope we can help you out.
    As for your situation, it is quite possible for you to be bisexual. It may take some time for you to get used to the idea and identify as it. If you are bi, you will eventually get used to it and be more comfortable identifying as it. Give it some time and I guarantee you will figure it out. Nobody can give you a label though. Nobody but yourself. If you think you are bi, you can label yourself as such. It's up to what you feel and who you are attracted to. I hope this helped. Good luck!
     
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    Hello & welcome to EC!~
     
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    You are confused. Please don't be frightened. Roselalonde is absolutely spot on. do give it some time and I too, guarantee you will figure it out.
    I have only just started coming to terms with being bi, after a long time of being uncertain and confused. I'm still confused now, and still coming to terms with identifying with it.
    Everyone here is so good, and will support and reassure you all the way. Brilliant having you here.
     
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