Figured I'd start where everyone starts, yaaay newbie forum! I'm 26.. And idek, confused. And not confused just recently, but confused since early preteen years. No experience with this whatsoever, but I have a long history of keeping my attraction to women to myself. I'm not ready to be out with it to friends or family, but I think it will be good to just be around people I can be honest with. So yeahhh... Thats my long, drawn out hello and introduction.
Hi.... Welcome along to EC. If you're still questioning, and want to be around people you can be honest with, you've come to the right place here. Everyone is very friendly and supporting here. No-one will judge you or try to push you or persuade you to be one thing or another. They will just help and reassure you. It's brilliant you being here, and I hope you will very soon, enjoy, and feel safe coming here. (!)
Hey girl! I know exactly how you feel! Trust me I'm in the exact same situation. I'm 24 and I'm just coming to terms with my attraction for the ladies. I've never had a gf and always swept in under the rug because it wasn't "right" but screw that it's time I woman up and face it. I told my roommate today and it did not go well so now I'm even more scared about people finding out.
Its hard to say dont be scared.. Cause I 100% know how you feel. But think instead.. You deserve to be happy, this is your life.. Not theirs. So they dont agree with your choices, so what? They are your choices, and you deserve happiness just as much as anyone else. I'm sure you dont agree with everything they do with their lives either. Do you love then less because of it? Ofc not: sometimes people take time to come around and accept change. Give it time and you'll feel much better.(&&&)
Hello and welcome to ec! I hope you enjoy your time here and that you're able to make new friends who will both advise and support you. Best of luck and if you ever need a friend don't hesitate to contact me
Welcome to EC! I hope that this place helps to figure out your orientation and that you feel comfortable around people who will understand you.
try making some frinds out there who accept you for who u really are then tell other people in your life one by one or at least thats wat i would do in that situation
I'm at a disadvantage here.. I live in a really tiny tiny town and everyone there is to know, I already know. And very few of them interest me as friends let alone people I would confess personal things to. I'm kind of a loner type, so meeting people who would understand me is extremely unlikely in any local aspect.
