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i wanna come out (i think)

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  1. aguynamednick

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    i know im pansexual and i have been for a while now and i came out to my friends. (nicest most open-minded group ever) but i think i wanna come out to my family idk if i should tho. cuz my moms a chatholic and my dad is just really closed-minded and conservative and stuff.:help: idk how to figure out if i should come out. i need some help(pretty plz)!
     
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    Hello and welcome to ec! :slight_smile:
    I hope you enjoy your time here and that you're able to make new friends who will both advise and support you.
    Best of luck and if you ever need a friend don't hesitate to contact me :slight_smile:
     
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    Coming out is scary, and can only be done when you're ready for it. If you think its time, then its time. Use your intuition. And remember that even if you are unsupported, eventually it had to be known anyways.. And you have a community here that is willing to support you.

    I say go for it. You never know what people will do until you give them the chance to show you... Maybe you'll find understanding where you never expected it.
     
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    thx for the advise easily the most helpful comment on this lil thread
     
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    Hello & welcome, Nick. I can understand wanting to come out to your family. Especially if you have same sex partners & maybe even will marry one, one day. Maybe start with a relative who is open & accepting (one who will just keep it between the two of you) & go from there. Hope you enjoy your time here & make many new friends.