Hi, I'm BE. I've just joined EC. I have been in a lesbian relationship for 8 years now. I look forward to grow more in my relationship with the help & support of friends in EC.
Thanks. Folks, I've written in chit chat & I need to hear your thoughts on that. Will be grateful. ---------- Post added 30th Jun 2015 at 12:25 AM ---------- Hi, I am 36 years & my partner is a year older. She & I have been in & out of this relationship for many years now. First I blamed the distance since we were working in different states. Then I decided to change my work place to solve the problem but even after that she seem to have an issue. I guess she is too afraid of what others, her mother in particular, will think of her. There are times, like now, where she will just stay away from me & remain silent. She was the one who took the initiative to begin this relationship. I took time to comprehend & when I finally realized that she met a lot to me, I committed myself to the relationship. But when my partner does this, it can get quite painful. We love each other, I know that. I wish I could do something to help her. ---------- Post added 30th Jun 2015 at 12:29 AM ---------- A couple of times I told her that she needed to accept herself but she would just push me away. Then she would come back & we would have a great time together. But the moment she hears people say something about her tomboy looks & behaviour, she would get offended & stay away from me.
