Hello EC, just found your site, thought I'd pop in. I am a 46 yo bisexual transwoman who has only just recently come to terms with who I really am. I've only outed myself just yesterday to my 18yo daughter (who is cool with it!). I've decided that June 11 is my re-birthday, since that is the day I finally outed myself to myself. Kinda jealous of you kids that can acknowledge yourself at a young age, but those are the breaks ;-) Currently I have a 21year marriage to a ciswoman that will NOT be amused in the slightest, so I have a rough road to hoe coming up. But I have exactly 1 life and I will live it as I choose...
Hey welcome your very brave what do you think your new name might be? I'm thinking of transitioning havn't started therapy yet but decided to start when I have some money. I'm new here also.
Kelly Jane (the KJ in my userid). Jane was my grandmother, Kelly because I like the name. Keeping my original last name, hoping the others in my family will keep me as well... ;-)
hi kelly! (thats my moms name too just spelt differently: kellie) welcome to ec, hope you find it usefull as i did. (*hug*) thanks for joining and feel free to add or talk to any of us on here and im sure they will be just as happy to talk to you as i am
Hello & welcome, KJ. I'm also 46 & had my first crush on a girl at nine. Before I knew what bi was. I'm still on a journey. Recently, I learned what gender fluid is & I realized, that's what I've been my whole life. My dh is also bi. I hope your wife will turn out to be open, understanding & accepting. Hope you enjoy your time here & make many new friends.
Welcome! I've been gender fluid my whole life, still can't figure out which one i am more of though But you are very brave for being able to come out!