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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Cutiepie0216, Jul 2, 2015.

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  1. Cutiepie0216

    Cutiepie0216 Guest

    Hey, I'm a teenager and I'm completely confused. When I was younger I could never imagine being in a relationship with a girl because I wasn't brought up being completely aware that, that could be normal. But as I've grown up I've had small feelings of being attracted to girls and recently I have decided to try to figure things out. I don't know if this is just a phase... And really I came on this site because I was hoping that someone could maybe give me some advice and see if anyone has gone through anything similar to what I am feeling now... Thank you...:slight_smile:
     
    #1 Cutiepie0216, Jul 2, 2015
  2. Roostaruu

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    I went through similar when I was younger. It took till around 19-20 for me to fully realise. In the end it will all make sense as you discover yourself. So don't worry about it! I regret worrying about it as much as I did.

    Also welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
    #2 Roostaruu, Jul 2, 2015
  3. Cutiepie0216

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    Thanks, I know I have a lot of time to figure things out but I'm just quite scared about the whole situation...xo
     
    #3 Cutiepie0216, Jul 2, 2015
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    Well everyone here is very supportive and nice. So you're in the best place :slight_smile:.
     
    #4 Roostaruu, Jul 2, 2015
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    Yeah I'm glad I found this site xo
     
    #5 Cutiepie0216, Jul 2, 2015
  6. C06122014

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    Hello and welcome to ec! :slight_smile:
    I hope you enjoy your time here and that you're able to make new friends who will both advise and support you.
    Best of luck and if you ever need a friend don't hesitate to contact me :slight_smile:
     
    #6 C06122014, Jul 2, 2015
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    You are about the age I was when I first discovered I had feelings for my best friend. :slight_smile:

    Welcome! Everyone here is pretty friendly and supportive. Let us know how we can help.
     
    #7 bi2me, Jul 2, 2015
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    Welcome a pleasure to make ur aquantance id say more but at work.
     
    #8 jewell, Jul 2, 2015
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    Hi
     
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    Hello there, welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
    #10 Comhionannas, Jul 3, 2015
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    Hello there, and welcome to the forum! :slight_smile: I know the whole "sexuality" thing can be a bit scary - but don't worry! You want to find out more about yourself, and that can only be a good thing in my book. Everyone's very friendly here and more than happy to help out if they can.
     
    #11 Spartan 117, Jul 3, 2015
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    Hi, Cutiepie!

    It's great to have you here!

    We can help you in the support section :slight_smile:

    Hope you're having a pleasant and interesting day!

    xo
     
    #12 Invidia, Jul 3, 2015
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    Hello!
     
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    Hello & welcome, Cutie. I'm 46 & had my first crush on a girl when I was nine. Before I knew what bi was. It wasn't until after I married & especially joined a bi site that I started exploring those feelings & fortunately, at times, having them reciprocated. I'm still on a journey. Hope you enjoy your time here, find the answers you seek & make many new friends.
     
    #14 GypsyButterfly, Jul 4, 2015
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