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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Caecilian65, Jul 17, 2015.

  1. Caecilian65

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    Hi Everyone,

    Well it looks like I finally got here. I think it will be good talking to someone other than myself about this. Not only have I not yet come out to anyone but I have moved to a new state about 10 hours drive from anyone I know which is making this a challenge I guess. No idea how to go about this 'coming out' process or if its too soon, although I know there no set formula.

    I am so scared about this whole but I think I am excited at the same time.. It has been so hard for me to admit to myself that I could be gay or bi (more likely gay I think) that I feel like I am so far behind everyone. I have so much to learn/make mistakes with now in my mid 20s.

    Coming from having periods of low self-esteem when I stop doing everything for everyone/keeping myself busy, it is really amazing to hear how supportive you are with everyone here.

    Cheers,

    C65
     
  2. Sevan

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    Hey, C65. Welcome to EC! I can promise you that it's never too late, and there are people just coming into their own at even later ages than you. It's nothing to worry about! Here you'll find an awesome and supportive community of good people willing to help you out. No matter in what way you need help.

    I'm Sev, if you ever need someone to talk to, you can drop a message on my wall. Welcome once again to EC! (!)
     
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    Hi and Welcome to EC. Glad you made it here :slight_smile: Best wishes on your brave new direction in life :slight_smile:
     
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  7. Caecilian65

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    Thanks so much for the responses everyone! I hope to post a few more items within the week. Thanks for the welcomes. I feel like I am coming to a second home :slight_smile:.
     
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    Hello Caecilian65! I am new here myself, but I already feel so welcome, that I'd like to say to you: Welcome friend!

    I hope that everyone here will be able to help you with anything you need, I know that if you ever need someone to talk to, I am always willing to listen. :slight_smile:

    Best of luck to you! And welcome again, I only just got here myself but I am happy to see you've joined! :slight_smile: