Hello, My name is Misty. I've been looking for a forum or chat or something of this sort for awhile glad to see I finally came across one. The reason I have been looking for something like this is because I'm not sure if I'm bi,lesbian or what and has been a confusion for me for a long time. I've never really had an actual relationship with anyone at all so I guess this is where that probably comes from and to actually write that out actually makes me sound kind of ridiculous. Hope I can find someone in the same boat or was at one point to talk to about this cause where I live, I don't really have that confidence in anyone to have that convo with. Thanks in advanced and have a great night/day! Misty
Hey there, glad you found the site. I recently joined as well, and am honestly surprised it took me this long to stumble upon it. A lot of the members here are in the same situation as you, and I myself was confused for a long while. It just takes some time, to find yourself. There's no rush. I'm sure you'll find the answer in due time. However, if you're attracted to both male and female, then there's a good chance you're bisexual. A lot of people say there's no such thing as "boy/girl crushes", but I'm a bit hesitant to agree, tho it does make some sense. Because as far as I'm concerned, an attraction doesn't have to just be sexual. It can also be romantic, or a strong infatuation. But in the end, it just depends on what you feel for someone, regardless of their body. It usually starts off with a physical attraction, and then we fall in love with a person's personality and how they treat others, ourselves included. But, again, the way romance works is subjective, and it depends on the people involved.
It doesn't sound ridiculous. Attraction isn't the same as a relationship... at least in my opinion. I'm also new, just signed up tonight. So welcome from this other new person.
Thanks Bentley, Some of the site i had found didnt seem active or as helpful as this one does, So definitly glad i found it. Also i can say that i think part of this stems from the small town i live in and no one to really connect with about it. I'm not really rushing to find out i just dont want to be like this forever either. I know what i want, its just where to look n start down that path seems impossible i guess to put it best. Thanks again! ---------- Post added 23rd Jul 2015 at 11:27 PM ---------- Thanks leifa and a welcome to you also. I can agree with you on the attraction part, well to an extent.
Im new to this site but have been out for decades. Im happy to listen or offer advice if you want an online lez friend. Congrats on reaching out and exploring.
Hi everyone! I'm Clover. I'm so glad I was able to find this kind of website. I'm a closeted femme lesbian and is currently in a turmoil with myself regarding my sexuality. I wanted to come out, so bad, but I'm afraid that my family and friends wouldn't understand, much more accept me. I hope to find friends here.
Hey clover and welcome to EC, obviously im new myself. So far everyone seems pretty cool and down to earth. Wishing you the best of luck with everything and im sure youll find some friends here. Have a great day!