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I`m also back!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Sugar, Dec 20, 2008.

  1. Sugar

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    lol I just saw another ``I`m back`` post.

    I also thought it would be appropriate to write my post on the welcome page. I haven`t been here in about a year. More than a year ago, thanks to EC I was able to come out. I had a really good coming out experience and have since been in a relationship with my partner for 11 months.

    Now, I`ve come back for a different issue that I am facing. My partner has come out to me as being transgender. Hopefully we can get some interesting discussions started on being in a relationship with a trans person. I`ve done a lot of research and unfortunately support for trans people is hard to get by!

    Talk to you all soon! :slight_smile: :eusa_danc
     
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    ~Welcome Back~:slight_smile:
     
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    welcome back!!!!!
     
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    Welcome back shug!
     
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    Welcome back.
     
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    Welcome back!
     
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    Welcome back =] I know a couple of transmen. What do you mean by trans; is s/he (the pronouns get VERY confusing xD) a girl who wants to be a guy, a guy who wants to be a girl, a guy who used to be a girl, or a girl who used to be a guy?

    Sorry, but I'm curious =D and trans can really mean several things. =]
     
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    Welcome back!
    and i honesty when i first read it i thought it said "i'm also black"
    and i was like What?
     
  9. Sugar

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    Yah I know there are so many sub categories it`s crazy! lol She is biologically female but would like to be considered male. She is unsure if she wants to go through surgery/hormone therapy since she already passes. And she does not yet want pronoun change. She`s still pretty confused about what she wants and feels very alone :frowning2:

    I had a bad reaction when she came out. I didn`t understand and I didn`t do my research. I have since come a long way but my initial reaction has had a negative impact on how she feels towards me. Things don`t look good right now. Anywho, I will make a post soon on the support section! :smilewave


    ps: LOL littledinosaurs, that hilarious :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Welcome back! I hope everything works out for the two of you. Keep us posted!
     
  11. Z3ni

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    Sugar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! welcome back XD
     
  12. boy0boy

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    It sure can be a difficult subject to get into- mostly because its very unknown to the majority- gay people can better identify because they also went through confusion over what they biologically want/need and what "should" be.

    It's a complicated issue to say the least.

    Welcome back, I look forward to talking, hope things turn out okay.
     
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    Welcome back.
     
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    Welcome back, love. :slight_smile: