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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by NervousAsHeck, Jul 26, 2015.

  1. NervousAsHeck

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    As my username may suggest, this is difficult times for me, but the time has come when I face up to facts or fall completely down the rabbit hole.

    I am married to a lady, I have no plans to divorce over it, but I am bi, it's caused me untold psychological problems from hiding, so it's time to come out. time to just admit it to myself and stop fighting my own emotions

    I'm Sure this may sound like a cliche but its true. I had my first same sex experience when I was in school to be fair it could be described as a relationship, although neither of us saw it that way, it wasn't until we bumped into each other in college and had a 'reunion' that the idea really came up that things had been more serious. Anyhow I've finally realised that I can't run, I can't try and make out to myself that these feelings I have are just because of this or that... I don't want to go into details publicly, but because in fact I am genuinely attracted(whilst in very different ways) to both sexes.

    Enough is enough... So I am here. Hope to make some good online e friends :slight_smile:

    Steve
     
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    Welcome to EC! Everyone's friendly and helpful here. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome Steve.

    I understand being nervous but that should ease with time as you come to accept yourself. I hope that things work out for you :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey Steve!
    I too reckon having huge psychological problems, but creating an account here is the first step to the good path :grin:

    Huge welcome!
     
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    Thanks all. :slight_smile: it's getting easier already I guess, but is going to take me time... What I can say is that I already feel more at peace with myself and that can only be a good thing. :slight_smile:
     
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