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Hi from a confused 19 year old!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by eeka, Aug 1, 2015.

  1. eeka

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    Hi everyone! I'm a 19 (almost 20!) year old woman that is maybe coming to terms with being bisexual? I avoided questioned my sexuality until college where it felt a little safer/more open to experiment because I came from a little more repressive household, so I've just recently begun trying to sort out my ~feelings~. I'm having a hard time figuring out how to figure out my sexuality (like how do I experiment? Sexuality is confusing), so I guess that's why I'm here, as well as I just need people to talk about it with. I want to say I don't believe in labels, but it would be nice to narrow down my orientation a lil bit.

    Also, I'm incredibly in the closet so this is kinda hard to type/talk about and it makes me a little nervous.

    Anyways, hi!
     
  2. Connorcode

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    Hi!
    Don't worry, if there's any place where you can be helped in discovering yourself and made comfortable by lovely people, it's EC.
    Welcome, eeka!
     
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  5. Nocturnal

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    Welcome, welcome. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome, hopefully we can offer you some help :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello and welcome! :slight_smile: I get what you mean about wanting to narrow your orientation down a bit; I felt the same way when I was figuring myself out. Having a word to describe it or come close to describing how you feel can help. EC helped me a lot- hope it helps you too!
     
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