Hello from a 30-something lady

Hi. I'm a little bit older than many people questioning who they are.

The way I define my sexuality is that I love people, not their packaging, so I suppose you could class me as bi. I'm a feminist and pretty feminine. At the moment I love a lady 20 years older than me with all my heart (though I don't know if she is interested in that way), but I've had a serious boyfriend in the past.

I've worked so much on my career that the romantic and relationship side of things got a little bit left behind, and I think that's why I'm only coming to matters of the heart now, in my mid-30s.

Just thought I would say hello, and see if anyone else out there is at a similar life stage, asking questions about who they are.

 

Thank you! Where is the best place on this site for me to ask advice about this really powerful soulmate connection with my older female friend?

 

Thanks