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Hola from Chicago

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by helenna11, Aug 16, 2015.

  1. helenna11

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    Hola
    I'm Elena, queer girl. I have dated both men and women. For a long time I did not think about being gay. I thought it was normal, all women are fluid. Last year i started focusing on women. Recently I had the biggest infatuation on this girl I was seeing and that told me there is no question: I am gay.
    I never felt so alive, infatuated and fulfilled than with her. I was so present. When I am with men, my mind is always fantasizing about women. With her, I loved every minute of it.
    Some of my friends know. I am now coming out to all my friends and I am planning to come out to my mom by the end of the year , when I visit her in Buenos Aires.
    I am Catholic. I never mind to like women but I never thought that i would feel this way. I am struggling with this realization. I am excited of being part of the community.
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! We hope you find everything as good as you hope it to be during your stay on this site. :icon_bigg
     
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    Welcome! ^^
     
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