Hey, I'm awful with introductions but I just wanted to say hi. I'm at the stage where I am not as confused about my sexuality as i was when i was younger. Whilst I have found some men attractive, i find myself more attracted to women to the extent of having erotic dreams about them, and i know that i would see myself in relationships with women. I am a pretty shy person to begin with, and i've only had one relationship and that was with a guy which now looking back, i can understand why it failed. My sibling is the only one who knows and has accepted, i think they knew all along since it wasnt really surprising to them. My parents, particularly my mother, are homophobic and often make remarks that hurt me deeply. I know that they would never accept me like this (although my mother barely accepts me anyway) but i dont want to live my life wondering what ifs because of fear of what my family's reaction would be. Ha, that was longer than i thought it would be! If youre still around, hi my name is "Kat". I'm a university student going on to do MA. And i like cats, so anyone who likes cats is already cool in my book. i'm so happy to have found a place like this, so i hope to make friends.
Welcome! Great to read your intro and I hope we will hear more from you. The forum is here for support and to connect you to like minded people for general conversation. Take a good look around, if you haven't already done so. A good starting point is the EC code of conduct - common sense stuff, but a good idea to check it out. Thanks for joining.
Hi, thank you for the welcomes.=) I'm already liking EC. And even if you don't like cats -- you're still cool.