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I need help please!!! >3<

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by sanjiblackleg, Sep 9, 2015.

  1. sanjiblackleg

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    So ive been struggling with my sexuality and gender identity for a few years now. I identify as a heteroflexible male right now but i would like to talk to a therapist that specializes in gender indentity and sexuality so i can be 100% sure of myself :slight_smile: though i cant let my family know so i need a free online therapist if anyone can reccomned one to me that would be great ^^ i am thinking about telling one of my family members but i just want to make sure i know more about everything before i come out if that makes sense lol. Anyway thank you for taling the time to read this and i hope you have a great day!
     
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    Hey, and welcome to EC. :slight_smile: Yeah, I'd recommend finding a therapist if you really need someone to talk to about it and/or a way to be certain of who you are. And I do think that it makes sense, waiting to come out if you're still not sure. I had to do a lot of thinking about it before I finally decided to tell someone.

    Not sure how helpful my advice will be but have a good rest of your day. :thumbsup:
     
  3. sanjiblackleg

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    Thank you for welcoming me! ^3^ i appreciate your advice :slight_smile: though do you know any therapists i could talk to? Lol xD and yes i think waiting is best as well :slight_smile: i hope you have a awesome day! :smilewave
     
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    Afraid I don't know any, sorry. :astonished: You could ask around in the "Gender Identity and Expression" sub-forum; someone there might know one.
     
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    Hey and welcome to EC!
    You should talk to the staff, they can help you.
     
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    Welcome :smilewave
    I believe the staff will be helpful as well.
     
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