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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by animefan2861, Oct 1, 2015.

  1. animefan2861

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    Hey everyone.

    I have been on here before, but I deleted my original account. Now I'm back and confused once again.

    Now I'm not sure if I'm genderfluid or just a tomboy. Any ideas on how I can easily figure this out?
     
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    Hey and welcome back starting anew!

    There is no one way that works for everyone when figuring out their gender. You're going to have to think about whether it's your internal, innate feeling of your gender that changes over time (genderfluid), or whether its your gender expression- eg if you dress feminine/masculine, how you put yourself out there. I'm sure more people at the Gender Identity and Expression forum can also help you out on this. Good luck!
     
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    I think the best way is to just experiment with different things and see what makes you the most comfortable. Just work on embracing how you feel, but try not to overthink it too much. In time it may become more clear.
    And welcome back!
     
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