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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by QuestioningMe, Oct 28, 2015.

  1. QuestioningMe

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    Hi everyone,

    I am pretty new to EC. I am excited to be a part of this cool space. I have recently come out as bisexual but I am still in the process of understanding my identity and sexuality. I am in a heterosexual relationship for over two years and I was very happy with him but lately I am feeling very confused and uncertain. We live together but we aren't intimate anymore (we haven't been for a while) and I am very confused about my feelings towards him. Anyway, I don't have many people in my life that I can talk about sexual orientation with so I could use new friends and people to talk to. Looking forward to reading and learning a lot on this forum!
     
  2. Alder

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    Hi there and welcome to EC. You'll find lots of support on here, and I hope you find what you need. Best of luck with your situation and hope you settle in well on the site!
     
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    Hello and welcome.
     
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    Hi.... Welcome along. It's brilliant to have have you here. Everyone here is so supportive and friendly, and I'm sure you will be happy coming here.
    I'm in a very similar situation to you, in that I've fairly recently come out as bisexual as well, and am still in the process of understanding my identity and sexuality. I am in a heterosexual relationship -married, and indeed, it is a good marriage - and is special to me. However, I do have attraction to guys as well. I am very confused about my feelings. Anyway, I don't have many people in my life that I can talk about sexual orientation, except for a few wonderful people here.
    I would be happy to talk to you too, and we could sure thoughts and views. Please do message me anytime.
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC.
     
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    Hey there! Welcome to EC, lovely to have you here :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello and thank you for being so welcoming everyone!

    Hi David,

    Thank you so much for reaching out to me and for starting this conversation. I appreciate it so much. I am still struggling to understand my identity and sexuality as well. I am in a relationship and have been for several years. It is a happy relationship but I am definitely attracted to women and lately I feel like I might be more attracted to women. I love my partner but it is all very confusing. I will try to send you a message soon, I am still trying to understand all the tricks to this forum.

    Thank you again!
     
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    *waves to QuestioningMe* :slight_smile: