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A new bigender from Denmark

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by evfantasy, Dec 3, 2015.

  1. evfantasy

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    So, this is both nervewrecking and a huge relief at the same time.

    I am 22 years old and I was born a male heterosexual. Not long ago I found out, and accepted, that I am bi-gendered. Specifically male and female.

    It's not something new. There's been signs of my female side for a while now, but I've always surpressed it because I was ashamed of myself for thinking like that. But now that I've finally accepted who I am it feels like there's been a weight lifted off my shoulders.

    This is pretty recent, so I'm not comfortable talking with my friends or family about it yet. That's my main reason for coming here. Having someone to talk to about it and get all this off my chest. Hope I didn't ramble for too long :lol:

    Anyway, it's nice to meet all of you ^^
     
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    Hi there, Nordic neighbor! :slight_smile: Welcome to EC! Glad to have you here. :slight_smile:
     
  3. evfantasy

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    Tak min svenske nabo :icon_wink
     
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    Hey :slight_smile: From a not so neighbouring country, haha. Welcome to EC!
     
  5. evfantasy

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    Thank you :grin:
     
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    Totally welcome :icon_bigg I'm new here too!
     
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  8. evfantasy

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    Nice to meet you ^^
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets. Enjoy your visits to the community.

    Congratulations on having accepted yourself, and I'm sure with spending time on EC, and getting to know others, you will become more comfortable with coming out. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you both :grin:

    I've already gotten a lot more comfortable and accepting of my female side. It still feels a bit weird having a 'not surpressed' female side, but not in a bad way.