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Short Introduction

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Kaydin, Dec 14, 2015.

  1. Kaydin

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    Hi,
    My name is Kaydin.
    I am almost 38 and just realized who I was. I feel kinda stupid admitting that but better late than never. I'm happily married to the love of my life, and just looking for a place where I can be me. My life is very complicated right now, and my spouse is not ready to be open about who she is yet, which I respect, so I can't quite fully "come out" myself. So I'm hoping this is a good outlet.
     
  2. Hawk

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    Welcome to EC! :wave:
     
  3. SiennaFire

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    Hi Kaydin,

    Welcome to EC :welcome:

    If I understand your introduction correctly, you are married to a woman who wants to remain in the closet, effectively keeping you in the closet as well. Is that correct?

    You may want to check out the LGBT Later in Life forum. You'll find a supportive group there and everywhere on EC.
     
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    It's okay, we're used to complicated here at EC. :icon_wink Welcome to the forum! SiennaFire has given you a good tip for where to start. I hope you have fun while you're here, and ultimately find it helpful.
     
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    Hey, welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
  6. DougTheBicycle

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    Hello at Kaydin! Congrats on finding the one! :grin: That is truly a wonderful thing, even if you can't be open just yet! Glad to have you with us. :slight_smile:

    I accept all bribes in the form of song and dance, pizza, weed, or a creative (Original!) limerick.
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! Don't worry everyone is complicated. :slight_smile: