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Hello...I'm new.

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Bluesteel, Dec 14, 2015.

  1. Bluesteel

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    I just wanted to introduce myself. I'm 26 years old and two weeks ago I was finally able to admit to myself that I was gay. While it's been a big relief to finally say those words it's left me in a rough place in life. Because I'm married in a heterosexual relationship with children. So to say the least life has been emotional for me lately. And this is the first time in my life I have ever reached out the the LBGT community. I really don't know what to expect. Plus being a natural introvert doesn't help me much.
     
  2. justin88

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    Welcome to EC! You'd be surprised how many are in the same situation as you so you're definitely not alone! Don't hesitate to check out the support area of the forum and start posting, everyone's friendly and caring on here! :slight_smile:

    I wish you the best of luck!
     
  3. Open Arms

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    I have a close friend who went through that struggle, being lesbian and married to a hetero man for over a decade. They didn't have children though, so she left, and they're both much happier now.

    Try the Later In Life sub-forum on here because there are people on there who are going through what you are. All the best on this journey.
     
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    Welcome to EC.

    I send you a hug, and congrats for being brave : Not everyone is honest with themselves, and they end up causing much suffering, after many years of denial.

    Your kids will be proud of you, and love you the same, you'll see.

    Enjoy.
     
  5. mituaski

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    Welcome hun! (*hug*)
     
  6. DougTheBicycle

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    Welcome to the family! :grin: I'm happy that you were finally able to realize your true self. Everything's gonna be okay. This is a wonderful place to get support and advice, and talk to others who know what you're going through. It's gonna be okay. :slight_smile: We're all here for you. :slight_smile: Stay strong! (*hug*)


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    Hi there,
    Welcome to EC.

    You will find some really nice folks here.
    I too am new. Just joined a few days ago.

    Happy to have you here.

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    Congrats, and welcome to EC!
     
  9. Outboy

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    Hello fellow newbie. Well done for being true to yourself. Although I havent come out, I have always known I'm gay and happy with that. It's the coming out in my straight world thats holding me back.
    Good luck with everything. There is plenty of support available and from my days experience on EC, able to express my feelings and emotions without judgement.
     
  10. Bluesteel

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    Wow... I never thought there would be so much love out there. Over the past few days since I've joined this community I haven't been as depressed. It's nice to know there are people that actually care. So from my heart I thank all of you.