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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Frussee, Jan 10, 2016.

  1. Frussee

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    I am 60 years old and I think I'm gender queer. I have identified as a woman attracted to women since I was in my late 30's. I've had nagging questions about my gender identity for the last few years and have found that I have more questions than answers.................

    I prefer to hang out with guys
    Male occupations and hobbies are of more interest to me
    I was a tom boy growing up.
    I wish I was physically stronger like a guy
    I was in the military and loved it
    The thought of getting pregnant both terrified and sickened me
    I wish I had a man's body when being intimate with a woman. I am sad about this.

    I have long hair and love it
    I like makeup and feminine jewelry

    My clothing preference is neutral. Neither very fem or very masculine
     
  2. GayPugs

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    The idea of being pregnant terrifies and sickens me, too, but I'm 90% girl. Liking makeup and long hair doesn't make you a girl or a guy. I like trucks. Always have ever since I was really little. Again 90% girl. 9% boy. 1% pug. :wink: Welcome to EC. If you ever need a hug or a shoulder to cry on or you really just want to chat, you know where to find me!
     
  3. Frussee

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    Thanks! I'm feeling a lot of emotions rising to the surface and it is overwhelming. I feel like I did when I first started to admit I liked girls. Very scared for sure.
     
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    Welcome to Empty Closets! (*hug*) Sadly, I cannot feel for you as I am cisgendered but if you ever need help we are here to give you a helping hand! It was a good idea that you joined as this place has been very supportive for me so they can help you too! Welcome again!
     
  5. Frussee

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    BiBoy,

    Thank you for your support!!
     
  6. justin88

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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
  7. Frussee

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    Thank you Justin! :O)