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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by QueerChair, Feb 17, 2016.

  1. QueerChair

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    So. I'm kind of confused about life at the moment. I'll try to keep this brief. Try.
    In 2014 I told my friend I was Bisexual, she was too. Two days later the whole school knows, let's just say most aren't very open to the idea. So what did I do? I told them I was straight. After awhile I think I was starting to convince even myself that I was straight...
    (2015)After that drama at our old school we move to a Girls College/High school. Then I happen to find myself getting a crush on my classmate. I tried so hard to convince myself I was straight. I got over her, but then I saw this other girl at the supermarket. My jaw dropped, I thought she was so pretty and I tried to awkwardly play it cool. It wasn't until I left that I realized what happened. In October I got into a relationship with a guy, it didn't feel right for me at the start, we eventually broke up in December.
    (2016)My friend wanted to join this LGBT thing at our school, she wanted me to go with her so she wouldn't be alone when she first went. I ended up staying through the whole meeting, when it ended I felt weirdly sad. That actually happened on Tuesday. Now I think I'm developing a crush on another classmate, which isn't optimal.
    Then I realized that if anything I've just gotten more gay over the years.
    I honestly don't know what to identify as anymore -,- I'm so lost.

    Sorry about that, I just wanted to vent. It helped.

    Anyway, hello! I'm glad to now be apart of this community! :grin:
     
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  2. mychemromance99

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    Hello there, welcome to EC :slight_smile:
    Don't worry, you're fourteen.
    Give yourself some time, and let your feelings guide you.

    WoW I'm so mawkish :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Anyway, welcome aboard.
    Feel free to post on my wall :slight_smile:
     
  3. PurpleMushroom

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    Hello and welcome! ^_^

    I find that its hard to use labels, so just don't worry about them for now. The only time you ever really need to say what you are is if you are joining a dateing site or something. If anyone asks just tell them that you just don't know yet if you don't want to tell them the truth or what ever :slight_smile:
     
  4. alexandr

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    Hi and welcome! :slight_smile:
     
  5. QueerChair

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    Thanks guys, I don't know what else to say besides that you made me feel a whole lot better :slight_smile: