Hello, I'm ConfusedBrit from Manchester, UK but you people can call me Matthew (if you want to) I'm on here because I've recently been very confused (hence the name) about my gender and just don't really know what category(s), if any, I want to define myself within. I'm currently out to my (pansexual) girlfriend and another friend too but I've been struggling a lot and have been feeling generally rather poopy about it - in other words, I'd just like to find some like-minded people to reassure me that this is normal and it'll be okay