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I am out~

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by J Boyan, Apr 1, 2016.

  1. J Boyan

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    I just spent 4 hours spilling my heart, reliving past experiences, expressed my distress, genuinely looking for some help and my post is deleted without word.

    this is my first time here, and now Im not even sure what the hell im supposed to do.
    Im not writing all of that again, and edit it... i dont have anywhere else to turn, and its because of some choice language I used...

    its not theraputic if I cant use the language that was used at me by other people. I am very disatisfied.Questioning giving you people (mods) a try, or maybe find something else...
     
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    First, welcome to EC. It's a great community, full of people who have walked or are walking a similar path you are on. Don't get discouraged. Reach out to a mod if you're having issues posting.

    Another suggestion is if you know it's going to be a long post, draft it in a word or text editor - not on the website. Once you're done, copy/paste it in and voila, your work is there regardless of it the post doesn't get submitted right the first time.

    Big deep breath, hun. You can do this. You are not alone. Again, welcome to EC and we look forward to hearing more of your journey.
     
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    Welcome to EC.
     
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    Welcome to EC :smilewave
    Give the site a bit of time, you'll surely enjoy it here :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! I can definitely tell you that is site is absolutely amazing. The people here are extremely nice and can help with almost anything. Yes, It'll take some time to get use to, but I'm sure that you won't regret it!
     
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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:
     
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    I came out to family was basicily was shut out
     
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    I am also new here I came out a few years ago but when dealing with family it seems like I am coming out each and every time
     
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    I'm sorry that happened I would be so mad, like Aggie said I would recommend saving it somewhere when you post something, but I understand why you would be mad. If you decide to type it again maybe use *** in place of the curse words.
     
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    hey! hope something works out.