Why hello there, I hope life is treating you well. I'm not going to pretend I haven't been staring at the screen for a good 10 minutes wondering how to introduce myself and what to introduce myself as... which is something I'm currently trying to figure out. Truth be told, I seem to be unnecessarily confused a lot. I know I like some males, I know I like some females, but I still can't seem to find a way to define my sexuality that doesn't make me feel uncomfortable. Maybe I just need to develop a multiple page formula to accurately predict who I'm going to be attracted to and who I'm not going to be attracted to, it would help my concious mind understand my unconscious mind's sexual and romantic preferences and therefore make my concious mind a lot less confused. It would also probably help if I could trust my mind to be truthful about who it's attracted to; sometimes I think it's just trying to convince itself it likes something it doesn't, though I can't think of any reasonable reason why it would. If I haven't made it clear enough, I'm a little confused. Anyways, I'm here to try and figure this out, and hopefully embrace a new little community where I can be a little more comfortable with being unsure and a little less worried that I'm lying to everyone, including myself. Thank you for existing Emptyclosets.com
Welcome. This is a good place to help fugue things out. For every body they just like who they like, for most it's the opposite sex for me it's the same sex and for others it can be either sex. Which individual we like and why is a complete mystery. (*hug*)
I is not human! I is otter! But yes, hi. Pleased to make your acquaintance. I hope you'll find this site useful and enjoyable!
Welcome to EC, Untitled! Don't sweat the confusion... embrace it! As YermanTom said, sometimes it's a complete mystery who we like. C'est la vie. One thing is certain, however, you are accepted here for exactly who you are, confusion and all! :welcome: