I'm a thirty-something nonbinary person who's just figuring out their identity and gender-related needs. I've got a long history of emotional abuse behind me, that's why I didn't take my own feelings seriously for so long. Now I'm in the situation in which all binary societies put their nonbinary members and it sucks. I hope that in this here forum I have found a place where I can talk about some of the things that I'm in the process of figuring out, and get advice from people who might be further along in their self-discovery/transition/coming out stuff.
I am 64 and gay and I like young blond and other cute boh's. PERIOD. It takes me this long to figure any of that out. Learn to masturbate it away ? Meanwhile, get real. You are not an animal nor an ape nor a cat nor a dog. You are a human. Learn to do something socially useful. Sexually, the gay bars have been around for longer than I have existed.