Hi there, Soooo... this is a thing that's happening. OK, let's do this! I'm forty (ugh), a guy and almost certainly probably kinda gay... maybe. Turns out it doesn't get easier to come out as you get older, there you go, I'm contributing to the community already! I signed up to the forums to get some advice and support. I'd really like to finally come out, but after so many years of lying to friends and family it's a daunting prospect to do by myself. It's depressing to be in this situation at my age, but I am feeling a little better now I've actually started doing something about it. I'll probably write a rambling thread about my situation in the 'LGBT Later in Life' section at some point. Well I think that's about it, thanks for taking the time to read this and hopefully we'll cross paths on this forum at some point.