Hi guys! I'm new to this site, and newly questioning my sexuality. This will probably be a long post, but it would mean the world to me if some of you would take the time to read it and respond. I am a female, and I have had a long term boyfriend, who i love and care about very much. I am attracted to him both romantically and physically, and we have a very healthy and happy relationship. I've just been a bit bothered about my sexuality recently because I think I am admitting to myself that I may have some attraction to women as well. The attraction to women has only ever been physical, with no romantic component, and im a person who really only feels like having something sexual with someone i feel a deep emotional connection with, so ive never felt the need to try anything physical with someone of my own gender because ive never felt that kind of connection with another girl. But I know there have been times when ive seen a hot girl and been... well, excited about it XD So I guess I'm wondering where this puts me in terms of labels, though it wont really influence my actions, because i am very happily dating my boyfriend and am not that interested in experimenting, at least not at the moment. I actually just talked to my boyfriend about some of this stuff tonight. I didnt come right out and said "HEY MAYBE IM A LITTLE BISEXUAL" but i told him that ive had some dreams/fantasies about other ladies, and he took it amazingly well, was actually pretty supportive of it, and even said if i feel like experimenting he wouldnt mind, though as i said above im not really interested in experimenting right now, as i like to be committed to one person So yeah, i guess ive just been more concerned about a label recently, not quite sure why. I think ive always kinda known that, on a spectrum, i wouldnt be fully straight, maybe more like 80% straight and 20% gay, but i just heard someone who's bisexual talking about their experience recently and certain things they said resonated with me and I could relate to it, so it just got me thinking about all of this a lot more, whereas in the past if i ever felt any physical attraction to a girl id just say "oh its nothing, im sure i just wish i could look as good as her, its not a big deal" while kind of knowing that wasnt really what was going on. I should probably also add that some of my friends are gay/bi, some arent, id say generally they are supportive of people being themselves in this aspect with a few exceptions. My dad is very kind and loving, but my mom is fairly homophobic, and my brother pretty much thinks anyone lgbt is emo and spends all their time on tumblr, and says he cant stand them... My family used to be religious, but we've all mostly dropped out of that, and my brother and i are entirely not a part of the church we grew up in any more. So yeah, i dont know what to consider myself as, or where i fall in the scheme of things, and i guess i just wanted some other responses and thoughts on all of this, as its all new (and at the same time, not that new) to me.