This is my first post here. I live in San Antonio Texas. I have been experimenting with my Bi side the last few years. I started with having a guy join me and my other. It was great and nerve racking at the same time. I then had a few more experiences with just men. They were not really good performers. Done in seconds. I have since learned I want the full thing. Lots of touching, kissing licking etc. Slow and sensual. I never thought I would EVER want that from another man. I just found one that took his time. I could never bring myself to kiss. Just couldnt do it. He was rubbing me all over, giving me oral which I returned. He turned me around and gave me a huge french kiss. Was not expecting it and what I thought was something I couldnt do, turned out to be quite the opposite. I loved it. I have since been with him once. He topped me and I topped him. It was an hour long sensual event. Loved it. So I guess, maybe I'm no longer considers Bi but more a closet gay? Looking at trans gender people is a HUGE turn on as I think both sexes are a turn on and knowing how a man can please another man makes a trans person even more sexy. Well, thats a lot for my first post! Tom