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Hi, looking for friends

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Thirteenly, May 14, 2016.

  1. Thirteenly

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    Hi. I'm blondejade and I'm a newly realized lesbian. I was bisexual for the longest time, preferring women. But recently, reading The Price of Salt, seeing the movie, and also Taylor Swift's 1989 album made me realize.. I'm fully, fully lesbian, I see my future with a woman, completely. I do experience some attraction to certain male celebrities, but it's not exactly sexual. Frankly I'm really struggling with my sexuality, struggling to be myself (hooray for having a homophobic family!), and I'm looking for friends. I don't know many gay people in real life, save for a family member, but we have a difficult relationship. It's not something I really want to discuss. I have some friends online but we're not.. too close, I guess, and I figured this forum might be my best bet. So, hi. :icon_redf :icon_sad:
     
  2. xAce

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    Hi! Welcome to EC. You'll find a lot of help and support on this site and I know you'll make some friends here too. I applaud you for being strong enough to know who you are despite having a homophobic family. Never be scared to be who you are! If you need anything or just someone to talk to, I'm always online (for the most part) and I'm always willing to listen.

    Welcome again to our family. We're all happy to have you!
     
  3. Eris

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    Welcome to EC! ^^ I feel you on finding male celebrities attractive. For me, they just look aesthetically-pleasing, they can be my squish but I wouldn't ever want to get into a relationship with them. (TB to when I broke off a LDR with a hot guy...)
     
  4. Thirteenly

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    Hi, thank you. My family doesn't really know my sexuality, I'm afraid to reveal, basically, the full "me" to them. But I'm glad I'll be accepted here.
     
  5. rainbowlovatic

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    Hi, blondejade! I'm a lesbian from Canada, too! :thumbsup: I'd love to be your friend! Please feel free to add me to your friends' list. I'm sure we could relate to each other. Take care and chin up!

    RainbowLovatic :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
  6. Thirteenly

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    Aw, thanks! :slight_smile: (!)
     
  7. Shadstack

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    I like guys not girls...but lezbefriends.
    hahahha geddit
    I'll show myself out.
     
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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:
     
  9. Thirteenly

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    Lol! :icon_wink
     
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    I'm looking for friends also. I am a trans woman looking for my way around.
     
  11. Butterfly2016

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    Nice to have you aboard ^^
     
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    i love making new friends so hi and welcome to EC