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Trying to understand

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by geometric, May 17, 2016.

  1. geometric

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    Hi. :smilewave
    I am 29, single and I have an 8 year old son. I have had a few boyfriends and have never felt totally 'right' and relationships never seem to last long.
    This year I have done a lot of self discovery. Gender roles were forced on me very young coming from a 'radically' christian family, and also through sexual abuse from a young age. I feel like I have never had the opportunity to think for myself and find my own sexuality. I have met one wonderful 73 year old lesbian woman who is sort of a mentor to me and i look forward to meeting some other like minded women.
    SO I am looking forward to reading loads of stuff on here and would love to somehow find anyone who lives in my area of New Zealand! I love to research and read and discuss pretty much anything so come at me
     
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    Heya and welcome to EC! I hope you find what you're looking for here and I know there are tons of people on here that are always willing to talk.
     
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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:
     
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    Nice to have you here! ^^
     
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    Cool, welcome to EC ! (─‿─)
     
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    Welcome to E.C :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Geometric... nice to meet you!
     
  11. geometric

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    Thanks everyone. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Geometric and welcome to EC!!:grin: I'm sorry to hear about your past. I'm sure you'll find alot of people to talk to who would like to get to know you better:slight_smile: Also hopin' that you'll find someone near you to talk and perhaps meet up sometime:wink:
     
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