Hi! Life is weird and involves a lot of pretending you know what's going on. Things have finally gotten complicated enough to google "gay forums", so it seems I could really benefit from writing things down, not keeping it all in my head, and talking with people with somewhat better grasps on what's going on. So I'm figuring it out, maybe I'll get into things later. Now I've made an introductory post because... tradition?... anyway, hi!