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The Smurph

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Grim_Rin, Jun 16, 2016.

  1. Grim_Rin

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    Hi. I'm an 18 year old newb. On the internet I go by Smurphinator or Smurph, not "Smurf," because I am not a little blue person.
    :eek: <-- This is, but this is not me.

    Anyway, I use he/him pronouns. I am still deeply in the closet. I didn't really know that trans was a thing for a while, and once I found out a few years ago I put that in the "Things that I must not think about ever" box... But that hasn't been going super hot this past year. My situation is sort of a Catch 22, where I feel uncomfortable getting outside help because I don't pass (Or more that I look way too female), but in order for me to pass I would have to tell people I'm trans, which I'm not comfortable with doing until I have some kind of outside safety system in place. So... The internet.

    If my avatar isn't enough evidence, I'm a nerd. No, seriously. Anything nerdy you can think of, there I am. BAM. Except Doctor Who, still haven't been able to get into it.

    Enough about me. How're you all doing this fine evening?
     
  2. 101DeadRoses

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    Hello there, Smurph! I love your name!

    My name's Sydney, I just sent you a friend request. Any time you want to talk to someone, just drop me a message. :slight_smile:

    I'm usually very late to reply, though, so be warned.

    Hope you're having a nice day!

    :wave:
     
  3. Miaplacidus

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    Ooookay. Doctor Who is a requisite for me to like you. (Just kidding. But I really love Doctor Who.)

    Welcome :slight_smile: I hope this is as useful to you as it was to me back in the day. My issues weren't so difficult as I am cisgender and my family was more or less welcoming (my father still doesn't talk about the issue 9 years and 4 boyfriends later), but it certainly gives you relief.
     
  4. Grim_Rin

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    Thank you all for the welcome.

    It seems I've officially triggered multiple people on EC through my TV preferences :grin:
     
  5. alexandr

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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile: