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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Question8, Jun 20, 2016.

  1. Question8

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    Hello. I am a older newbe, needing some assurance about identity. I know who I am but have spent the last 20 years living with a wonderful friend/ partner but with no sexual input. Both of us didn't realise we were gay at first. I knew well into the relationship but she only decided she was a gay woman in the last 12 months but didn't want me. That has left me devastated , lonely, depressed at the age of 65. I want to be able to say I am lesbian but haven't had any real experience, which makes me feel quite nervous. Has anyone else had this kind of experience?
     
  2. alexandr

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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:

    There's plenty of support here for you, I hope the forum can help you.
     
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    Hey there, welcome to EC :slight_smile: Just go ahead and ask around in the forums. I'm sure you'll get a few responses.
     
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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
  5. YuriBunny

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    Welcome to EC! ^^

    You don't need any experience to identify as a lesbian. (*hug*) Good luck!