Hello. I am a older newbe, needing some assurance about identity. I know who I am but have spent the last 20 years living with a wonderful friend/ partner but with no sexual input. Both of us didn't realise we were gay at first. I knew well into the relationship but she only decided she was a gay woman in the last 12 months but didn't want me. That has left me devastated , lonely, depressed at the age of 65. I want to be able to say I am lesbian but haven't had any real experience, which makes me feel quite nervous. Has anyone else had this kind of experience?
Hey there, welcome to EC Just go ahead and ask around in the forums. I'm sure you'll get a few responses.