Hi. I've just joined. I'm a 40 year old woman with a soon to be ex-husband, an actual ex husband and 2 kids but I've know for 26 years I'm not straight. The only people I've told are the two husbands (before marrying them). I'm trying to figure out who or what I am and hoping to find people who can help me find the words. Next step is saying it out loud but I figured if I can write it down in safe space first that might be a start!