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Hello to this new situation

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Gardenlady, Jul 12, 2016.

  1. Gardenlady

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    Hello everyone! I have joined this group in hopes of figuring out my feelings. I am happy, married to a man and our life together is good. I have always been curious about being with a woman. I don't want to stop my family and marriage. My husband offered, when we were younger, to invite a female over to join us in sexual situations. I grew up religious and was not sure if I could do that at the time. I want to have an experience with another woman with being discrete. I also don't want to just have a "let's hook up" because that seems rude right?
     
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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi welcome to the forum.
    I understand where you are coming from. I'm happily married but GAY as f***. I'm just not into the hook up thing or casual flings, so it's a case of working things out as we go along. (The 3 in a bed thing would totally mess my head - big time)
    This is a good place to figure things out.

    There's no right or wrong answer, only what is right for you.

    Everyone here will help and support you on your journey of self discovery.
     
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    Welcome to EC! ^^
     
  5. Mirko

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    Hi there! Welcome to Empty Closets. It is a great place to talk about your feelings, and to make sense of them. Feel free to share your experiences. Hopefully you will find the information and suggestions useful.

    Welcome aboard. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
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    Others who are smarter with more experience will give you help here. I will give you a Welcome to EC :smilewave
     
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