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  1. Eab91

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    Hello. I just came out to my husband today as a lesbian. It is very difficult and confusing at the moment. Any support is welcome. I am young, 24 years old and I have 3 year old son. I had identified as bisexual for as long as I can remember, but the last few months I haven't had any attraction to men. Luckily my husband is supportive, he had a feeling this was coming, so he was prepared.
     
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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you so much. I was very hard to open up about this, i think I have been in denial for a while, but I do feel very relieved.
     
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    Hey Eab. I joined today because I started questioning and wanted to do all my research before I even decide to say anything to my husband. Its amazing that you were able to come out to him!
     
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    Hello unyakana,

    I wish I had found this website before I came out. It has been a few months that I am realizing that I am identifying as lesbian instead of bisexual. If you need support I am more than willing to talk and let you vent lol HUGS. I know it is hard.
     
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    ty hon. I will totally remember that. Shoot me a message or ill try and figure out how to send you one lol(!)
     
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    I am still a newbie so i can not send private messages until after 2 weeks :slight_smile:
     
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    oh then we are in the same boat lol!
     
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    Yeah I just registered today. I read that to become a Full member, we have to have 50 posts/replys and be a member for 2 weeks or longer :frowning2:
     
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    Well then Ill help you become a member and reply and youll do the same for me :wink::thumbsup:
     
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    Sounds like a plan. :icon_bigg
     
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    So where is Visalia?

    ---------- Post added 22nd Jul 2016 at 03:42 PM ----------

    and bbl I am about to eat dinner. :slight_smile:
     
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    It is in Central Cali. It's sooo hot! lol. && I need to make dinner too.
     
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    Im in texas. Its hot af
     
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    Oh man! I bet!!
     
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    Yep. Oh well. Itll get cooler soon. Just not soon enough
     
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    Yeah I can't wait until fall it's my favorite season. Hoodies and hot chocolate:slight_smile:
     
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    Hey girls, I just wanted to remind you that you can chat via Wall Message! Just click on the name of the person you want to chat with, then click "View Public Profile", and you can write in the box on the person's profile.

    Welcome to EC! Glad to have you on board. :slight_smile: I hope you can find answers and that everything works out for you!
     
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    Thank you!!
     
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    :thumbsup:
     
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