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I can't say no!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Guyanabae19, Aug 16, 2016.

  1. Guyanabae19

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    I had a drunk lesbian hookup last night for the first time i said no twice but eventually let her touch me I have a problem saying no and being pressured into things . I need more confidence i guess because i cheated on my boyfriend and now this women keeps texting me what should i do
     
  2. faustian1

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    If you hadn't been drinking, how close would you have come to giving in? This is not a question to place blame on you, but rather the question is to ask how curious you are without alcohol. In other words, how much confidence would you have then?
     
  3. Creativemind

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    Agreed with the above poster. This woman took advantage of your drunk state and made it hard for you to even say no. I wouldn't put any blame on you at all.