Hi! I'm new here! Not really sure how I got here, but I found it somewhere between googling "lesbian, and married to a man" and "how do you know your a lesbian?". Long story short - I was bisexual when I met my husband to be. We got married, had kids, and now I'm at this crossroad, wondering if I can continue living with a man or not.
Welcome to EC,ellevilde! You've come to a great place to get information, ask questions, look around or talk to people who have been through - or are going through - situations similar to yours.
If you haven't already done so, check out the LGBT Later in Life Forum. You are DEFINITELY not alone!
Welcome to EC~ As Quantum said, there is other people here that are in the same situation as you c: We're here for you ^^
Welcome! You've come to the right place for support, people are very well informed, kind and helpful here. You are definitely not alone
I am in a similar position. Only I have been married much longer. I really don't know what to do. My wife and I no longer have sex. I'm attracted to men, but some women too. I told her many years ago I thought I might be gay. She wanted to marry me anyway. Now our kids are grown up and I am unhappy in my skin, but afraid to break up this long relationship.