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New - and unsure!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by ellevilde, Sep 16, 2016.

  1. ellevilde

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    Hi!

    I'm new here! Not really sure how I got here, but I found it somewhere between googling "lesbian, and married to a man" and "how do you know your a lesbian?".

    Long story short - I was bisexual when I met my husband to be. We got married, had kids, and now I'm at this crossroad, wondering if I can continue living with a man or not.
     
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    Welcome to EC,ellevilde!:slight_smile: You've come to a great place to get information, ask questions, look around or talk to people who have been through - or are going through - situations similar to yours.
     
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    Thank you! :slight_smile: Just knowing there are people going trough similar stuff, males it a little less scary!
     
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    If you haven't already done so, check out the LGBT Later in Life Forum. You are DEFINITELY not alone!:slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC~
    As Quantum said, there is other people here that are in the same situation as you c:
    We're here for you ^^
     
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    Welcome! You've come to the right place for support, people are very well informed, kind and helpful here. You are definitely not alone :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:
     
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    I am in a similar position. Only I have been married much longer. I really don't know what to do. My wife and I no longer have sex. I'm attracted to men, but some women too. I told her many years ago I thought I might be gay. She wanted to marry me anyway. Now our kids are grown up and I am unhappy in my skin, but afraid to break up this long relationship.
     
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