Hey guys/girls/them/etc! My name is Ginny, 3rd year college student. I'm 20yrs old, i'd been questioning my sexuality since middle school, acting the part of the quiet straight girl but low-key believing I was bi while I still tried to figure this whole thing out, not wanting to come out for fear of being wrong or too young to know what I was doing. In the past six months however, i've come to terms with the fact that boys are gross and i'm all about the ladies yay! I'm still struggling with the fact that sometimes I still think i'm too young to know who I like, even if I am 20, which is why i'm still so afraid to tell anybody, because what if i'm wrong? That's why i'm joining this forum, to finally learn to accept myself and not keep living with this constant fear in my head. Since i've been questioning for most of my life, at this point only a few of my college friends know, working on building up to telling close friends and family, for now I just want to join a community where I can talk to other people that think like me so I can be reassured that this really isn't just crazy talk inside my head and I actually am a sane human being haha. Excited to join the forum!
Hi Ginny... I went through the same thing. There's no need to give yourself a label right away. Take your time and find out who you are inside. Yeah, guys can be gross and idiots but they're not all bad... but that's a preference too. Don't rush yourself and enjoy your new freedom that you've discovered. Welcome to EC!
Hi Ginny i'm David,,i'm 25 years old and i'm bi... I can only speak for myself here but I knew when I was 13,one year after puberty,,i thought I was gay till about 14 but I knew I was still attracted girls, I know who I am and am still confused on how I could ever make a relationship work being attracted to both sexes,,but I think your old enough to know who and what you are,,if you ever want to talk more message me,,i'd be more than happy to talk with you
Hey Ginny, welcome to EC ---------- Post added 14th Dec 2016 at 08:16 PM ---------- Just realised how old this post is haha. Got confused because another member had posted here today... Oops.