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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by WinterBird, Oct 12, 2016.

  1. WinterBird

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    I'm really not sure what I'm doing here. It was a bit of a whim.
     
  2. Quantumreality

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    Hi WinterBird! Welcome to EC!:slight_smile: Just look around the forums. I think you'll find there are plenty of reasons for you to be here!:thumbsup:
     
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    Welcome to EC. :wave:
     
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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:

    I was the same at first but I guarantee you'll find your way here rather quickly. Enjoy :slight_smile:
     
  6. WinterBird

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    I don't really know where to post. This usually isn't on my mind, but the subject came up today, in a negative form, which it usually does when it (general homosexuality) comes up in conversation. It's hard when your parents, no matter how old you are, are opposed to the idea, and speak harshly about it. Sometimes I don't know what to think. I didn't realize I had repressed this for so long, until it all came up at once, and I dissociated, then cut myself. but my head has been clearer, in some respects, since doing that.. but it was especially hard tonight hearing how strongly my mom opposes being gay. She has no idea that I am.. I don't foresee myself ever telling my family,I never want it to be "that thing" they talk about when I'm not in the room. That generally means being alone, which is heavy to think about -- as far as the future -- as for right now it's expected. Anyway.. I don't really know what to post here.
     
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    WinterBird,

    You don't have to post anything at all. Just look around the forums and read threads that are of interest to you. Then, if you feel like bringing your issues/concerns up for discussion, you can start a new thread in the appropriate forum. If your family's attitude is one of your biggest concerns, maybe check out the Family, Friends, and Relationships forum...
     
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    Hi WinterBird,

    Welcome to EC!

    I'm sorry your parents aren't accepting of who you really are. EC is a good place to vent your frustrations, seek help in a particular topic, or just by reading and interacting with other LGBT+ people who understand. I hope you'll continue to join us here and share your journey with us.

    Take care.