Glad to meet everyone and find a place to talk. First off I've always know I was Bi and have always been OK with that, I never mention it and it surprise many people that find out because they assume if your masculine and discreet you automatically are straight. I've been more open not exactly out but open and have even started to find male friends that share my situation. I guess a lot of guys are more open about their sexuality after they turn 50. I do have one problem and that is online dating or chat. Even though I work in online strategy I'm having a big problem getting people to meet me. I believe I'm friendly and a good communicator but when someone finally wants to meet they cancel last minute. This happens a lot. Now I'm happy with who I am an how I look, I'm not a model but I'm still fairly attractive at 53 and in pretty good shape. Am I missing something or are these dating sites just people all looking for 20 year old twinks? I'm sure many are chuckling because this is probably common, especially among newer out of the closet guys. Thanks for hearing me out