My name is Bedlam Bill but BB seems easier. I've joined this forum because I'm in my mid-30's and feel I've just had the rug pulled from underneath me. A friend came out recently as trans-masculine, and in reading up I discovered that sexuality and gender were unique and separate. I'd always followed the straight guy in a male body must be male, narrative, but have realised that I'm on the non-binary gender spectrum somewhere down the middle/ androgyne. Outside this I work as a professional engineer, I am married with two lovely kids. I ride unicycles when I get the time, along with loads of other crazy stuff. BB