Hello! You can call me Dizzy, as I am still unsure about myself and don't wish to have people find me out on here. I am 17 and live in North-East Indiana. For a few years I have identified myself as bisexual and cis-female. But in the past few months I have been researching and do find myself to be much more attracted to males. I have taken the S.A.G.E. test because I don't know how to identify myself. I do quite agree with the results, which were: Also in the past year, I have been wanting to get into the Drag scene. I can't explain why I would, and with me being in one of the more conservative states, it's hard to know who to talk about it with. I have talked to my friend who is female-to-male trans and I believe identifies himself as a demiboy. He does make a lot of jokes about it, which makes me uncomfortable sometimes, but of course is supportive. My mom and boyfriend both strongly support me wanting to try drag, but I don't think I specifically identify with the binary gender I was born with. I have looked at transmasculine, and believe that's what I might mainly identify with, though I do dress "girly" because I like that sometimes. I'm mainly here for guidance, because if I ask my friends about it they say "whatever you identify with is what you are," but I don't even know where to start. I feel like I'm looking for answers, and if in the end I do end up being Cis, then I'm glad I could figure it out. Thanks. Dizzy:smilewave
Hey Dizzy! Personally I never really liked the idea of drag, but I think that is probably because I am a sex repulsed asexual. However, I see that is makes so many other people happy. Go ahead and try to see how you like it. Here is something that I stress a lot. Do not feel like you have to have a label on your gender, or your sexuality or your romantic orientation. If having a label makes you feel better, than awesome. Just remember that your label doesn't define you. Best wishes, Mel
