Hey, My name's Sascha, I'm 18 and a trans*boy-somewhat from Germany. Which just means I gave myself the shitty Name Yves Aleksander cause I like it somehow, I'm allowed to start driving licence training (but won't cause I don't see a reason for it), I prefer male-pronouns, will have top-surgery and T-therapy and so on but will always be okay with my feminine/androgynous appereance and I'll need a dictionary to find my way through this forum. Okay, so we're done with that and I can go on with the sexual-stuff and coming out, cause yeah it's the other main theme around here. I told my family I'm bisexual on my 15th birthday - while I noticed I'm in fact panromantic asexual aorund 1-2 years later - and will also come out as transgender tomorrow. This is in fact a great deal cause I already tried to tell both of my parents about it and they both didn't take it that serious (may more about that later in the right subforum). Anyways, of course there are things apart from that in my life. After deciding to change my life after years of selfdestruction I learned to regulate my exercise-habits and at the moment I'm training for ToughMudder in September. I'm a student in my last 1,5 years of school, trying to figure out which job would suit me. Even if I'm not that kind of guy who see's himself as bandmember one day I'd like to work somewhere in the music business and am playing e-bass. Music is a big part of my life, mostly metal, dark rock, medieval, industrial, a lot of stuff in between and weird outcast like Neue Deutsche Todeskunst (something like 'new german art of death'). 'Thanks' to my lack of real hobbies and my introverty and antipathy against most ways to socialise I also started practising juggling... and yeah it's pretty awesome. And now I talked fucking much so I'll just shut up now. After wishing everyone who reads this a great day and hoping I didn't offend anyone. yours Sascha/Amdukias
Hi Amdukias! Welcome to EC! I hope you like the community here, and feel accepted here. I'm new too, i've only been on here for a few days - a week tops - and so far i love it here. Of course you didn't offend me, why would you offend me? I try to be welcoming and accepting here even if me being a 90's kid means i don't get all these new labels, either. When i was in school coming out as just gay or bi was a big thing. My point is, i don't really get it but i'm okay with it anyways. Hopefully i can learn more about others in the community being on this site too, as well as figure out my own shit.
Hey LunarLyric that sounds pretty awesome thanks a lot and I'm sure I'll settle down. I don't know, I my english-skills are like non-existent and instead I'm really good with offending people without even noticing? && you're not alone, I'm not better with this labels I guess... I'm sure we'll both manage this Thanks for answering and have a nice day!
Welcome to EC Sascha, I have to say you sound like a pretty interesting guy. I don't see how any of that could have been offensive, so take it easy As for labels, I also realised that I wasn't bisexual only after I came out to my parents... Then again labels are far too complicated for me, which is why I eventually ditched them altogether.
Thank you both @AnAtypicalGuy: Awwh that's so nice of you to say hope you're right Yeah, exactly xD That's why my sister told me she'd never come out but just bring her girlfriend/boyfriend home (she's pan/sapiosexual)
That's pretty much what I'm going to do, as I'm not the type to make a big deal out of coming out. I only mention that I'm into whoever it is, whenever it's relevant in a conversation or situation. It must be pretty useful having a pansexual sister, as you can be sure that you have somebody who will support you.
I wish I'd be able to do that too, but I guess it's too late. Anyways, I'll get over it xD I think if I'll ever have a boyfriend my family will be like "what the heck" and I'll just be like "I told you so..." && Yes I think so too. Tomorrow we'll find out
Yeah I've waited long enough and after my coming out to my friends went just perfect last friday I know where I can go if they don't accept me. So no reason to hide anymore
Hi Amdukias, welcome to EC! By the way I think the name you've chosen is AWESOME. Also time traveller question, are you a Dr. Whovian? Or just time travel in general?
Hey and thanks a lot! Most People laugh when I explain who Amdukias is but I don't care I think it's awesome. & Nope sorry just General time traveller steampunk, more Coppelius/Lord of the Lost related but Dr. Who is still on my list
