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It's quite overdue

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by OtterGrump, Mar 21, 2017.

  1. OtterGrump

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    Hello everyone,

    I've been going through some stuff and for a while now and basically I've been trying to figure out if I'm female or male (to put it simply). That's why I'm here, and I've been meaning to join for quite a while.

    You might find me on here in sporadic bursts with long pauses in between, and I'll most likely be on here making no sense whatsoever because not only do I not know what's going on but I'm really bad with words and communication in general.

    So um, yeah. I might be too afraid to write much at first 'cause I'm an anxious person, but hopefully I'll get some stuff out and have someone hear me, because god knows I'm not telling anyone in real life until I'm one hundred percent sure about it.

    I guess I'll be seeing some of you around. Thanks
     
  2. Worker Bee

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    Hi there. Welcome to EC!

    I'm glad you've found your way here. It's a great place to work things through and find people in similar situations.

    A lot of members here are shy and experience depression and/or anxiety (including myself) so you're not alone.

    And it's ok to not make sense. Sometimes you just need to get things out in the order that they occur to you.

    You're amongst friendly and supportive people. There's no rush for you to make loads of posts, it's more important that you feel comfortable to talk about what you are feeling and going through.
     
  3. BadassFrost

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    Welcome :smilewave I hope you'll find everything you need here.
     
  4. OtterGrump

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    Thanks for the welcomes guys. I just hope that when I post things that I don't have to wait a really long time for replies.
     
  5. Quantumreality

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    Hello OtterGrump! Welcome to EC!:slight_smile:
     
  6. Justshort

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    Hi
    confusion is a terrible thing. luckily you are not alone there are many of us in the confused boat in this forum. hoping you find yourself x
     
  7. OtterGrump

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    Thanks for the kind words, everyone! Still trying to figure how to even post something as I have no idea how to say any of what's going on in my head!
    See you guys around here.